Below is a link a friend shared entitled, “What should make Christian marriages distinctive?” What a great night for you and your spouse to give it a read. God never promised the Christian life would be easy and sometimes, because you are, life becomes even more challenging. Marriage is especially difficult and under constant attack from a secular world. As designed by God, it is to be a reflection of Christ’s relationship to the church (Ephesians 5:22-33). Because you are a Christian does not make you immune from these challenges in marriage. Your best effort and your morality alone will not be enough to keep problems away because we all sin. But just as sin indwells you, so does the Holy Spirit. That’s the difference. By His grace, God has given us what we need to know His will. Will you hear from Him?